Do Not SHARE!

- Shishir Kumar

Your Weakness.

I was studying in high school when a friends of mine felt in love. Lucky he!

But a day he told me that the girl rejected his proposal. I do not know what he felt after that but my mind turned into a projector. One that could project future for him.

I could see him crying, begging and starving. I could see that him after his repeated efforts wont  a result. I could see how I would rush him to hospital once he tries to end his life in depression. Yes, this happens to us all. We do see things coming.

To my surprise he did come and met us normally. 

The projector started working with more vigour. I knew this was the sign of depression. I would imagine the worse. It happened. The boy silently gulped some sleeping pills.

So the question is what wrong did he do?

Loving at tender age? No.

Sharing it? Yes.

Make it a golden rule in your life, never share you weakness with others. I tell you why.

Most of us have read “And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” ― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist or the book called the The Secrets by Rhonda Byrne. What are these literature about and what does it suggest?

Absolutely right, they talk about power of manifestation. What you think will come true someday. But yes, I think positive and so positive things would manifest, Right? 

Wrong, its true until you share. 

Lets me explain this with an example of a person who is on verge of bankruptcy. In a small gathering of four friends A, B and C he shares the agony of his life. He does this for some sympathy and support. Each of the three friends react differently.

While A thinks this as so bad and wishes to help him, he thinks along how this man must be beaten by his wife for not full filling her demands. B on the other hand is happy, jealous he was, he imagines how good it would be seeing him shifting to a tiny house and asking for a job. While C being a true friend prays for his friends and is in tears imagining how the children would dragged out of school for not paying the fees.

But our hero’s situation was not that bad. He could not manage certain tenders and was awaiting some big payments. So he was in a temporary big crisis. But now that temporary would change to something worse.

While the thoughts of A and B would manifest as his wife beating and children being thrown out of school, because of C he might have to leave the house. The chances of C’s thoughts being manifested are maximum as negative emotions come with huge commitment. Okay, B’s prayer might help save him from asking a job from C.

Negative emotions are always dangerous. When you think something positive - Earning enough to buy yourself a Porsche, the second thought would be what If I lose my job in between, what if I get very sick, what if there is family issues, what if …”. Finally, you shall buy a Porsche, by God’s grace, but after travelling all the hurdles you created in the name of “what If”. This happens, Isn’t ?

Think, your thought alone do create so much of hiccups in your life. And you cant stop sharing. 

Blessed Be!